STAYING TRUE TO YOURSELF
Don't allow what you are passing through affect your character negatively. So many people become resentful because of their challenges. They have allowed what they are passing through alter their personality. Some become more harsh, easily angered or vexed. Some people's character is changed into being ill tempered or rude. This is not commendable at all. You have to make a conscious effort to be sure that your attitude is not altered no matter what. That is where self control comes in. Be in control of your emotions no matter the situation; don't transfer aggression to innocent people around you. When you transfer aggression, those who are not the architect of your worries begin to bear the brunt. The most painful part is when parents begin to transfer aggression to their children as if the children created the problems in which they find themselves. A once loving parent turns into wicked and inconsiderate thereby becoming unapproachable to the child. And when your ch