I LOVE CHILDREN

But I'm making a mistake that needs to be corrected ASAP! Loving children is not bad. But where do we draw the line and toughen up? Loving children is something that comes easily & naturally to me. It's like a calling, in fact, A GIFT. And this has always beeen obvious because even before I became a mother, I had so many children in my corner that I took care of (little ones and teenagers). I was so loving towards these children that the parents that appreciate what I do used to hand over their children to me (they literally 'dash' me their children 😂). Those who felt threatened by the love I showed their children began to react negatively. They feel like I was trying to take their place in their children's life. It was that serious! I have started having my own children for more than 14 years now but the problem is that, most times, I am 'too' loving that I don't know where to draw the line between pampering and exerting discipline I am seei...