LET YOUR KIDS BE KIDS

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Several times I have seen mothers dress up their little ones (children) in rather mature outfit and it's usually cute.  But as the saying goes "too much of everything is bad".

 

Children have clothing that are meant for children, most of these clothes are colourful and has a lot of decorations and drawings. Sometimes, their favorite cartoon characters are even drawn on these clothes.

 

Naturally, an average child loves colorful things. Now, taking away colours from your child's childhood may not be a good idea. WHY? It is part of their learning and growing process.

 

Secondly, some parents even turn their older children to mothers and fathers by making them SOLELY take care of their younger one(s). Your older child can help you, but that doesn't give you the right to pass your parental responsibilities to him\her.


 

Please, don't groom adult-children and make them childish-adults. Let your little children enjoy childhood, learn from their childish mistakes, and be wonderful adults!

YOUR CHILD IS A CHILD, LET HIM/HER LIVE LIKE ONE. Thankyou

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