Life Quotes

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 ''If you cannot watch your thoughts, watch your words. It is not everything that comes to your mind that you must say out loud''

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 ''Do you have something negative to say about everyone? if yes, then, you are at fault''.

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 ''A real woman isn't perfect and a perfect woman isn't real''.

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 ''Beauty isn't about having a pretty face alone, it's about having a pretty mind, a pretty soul and a pretty heart''.

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